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About The Rift with Rick

Rick & Elle, taking a glimpse into the calm and connection. Healing begins right where you are.

🌈 About the Blog: For Every Soul Seeking Truth and Healing

The Rift with Rick was created to address the often unspoken issue of narcissistic abuse within the LGBTQ+ community. We are often told that love should be an exciting experience and that friendships should be like family. However, what occurs when those we trust the most exploit our identities, manipulate our deepest fears, silence our emotions, and make us feel unworthy of love? This blog aims to break the silence surrounding this problem. Whether you identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, queer, non-binary, questioning, or anywhere else along the LGBTQ+ spectrum, know that The Rift is here to acknowledge: your pain is legitimate, your story matters, and you are not alone.


Here's what you can expect:


*   Real-life stories of survival and recovery

*   In-depth analysis of narcissism and emotional manipulation

*   Resources to help you rebuild your sense of self

*   Discussions about trauma, queerness, and reclaiming power

*   A space where your identity is respected and never used against you


Whether you are gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, queer, non-binary, questioning, or anywhere on the LGBTQ+ spectrum, The Rift is here to affirm:


*   Your pain is valid.

*   Your story matters.

*   You are not alone.


Here, you can expect:


*   Real-life stories of survival and recovery

*   In-depth analysis of narcissism and emotional manipulation

*   Resources to help you rebuild your sense of self

*   Discussions about trauma, queerness, and reclaiming power

*   A space where your identity is respected and never used against you.
 

This is more than a blog. It’s a starting point. A mirror. A lifeline.

If you've ever felt like you were the only one going through it—welcome home.

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About Rick

Hi, I’m Rick —a survivor, storyteller, and advocate for healing after narcissistic abuse and cohesive control.


I created The Rift with Rick to share what I once thought I’d never tell. After surviving a deeply painful relationship that mirrored the emotional wounds of my past, I found myself at a crossroads: stay silent or speak out. I chose the latter – for myself, for others like me, and for the truth. This blog is a testament to the power of speaking up and a beacon of hope for those who have endured similar experiences, reminding them that their stories matter and they are not alone in their journey towards healing and self-discovery.


Raised by a single mother who struggled with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, I spent much of my life navigating emotional survival. It wasn't until adulthood, and a devastating encounter with someone who mirrored those same traits, that I fully realized the cycle I had been trapped in. Breaking free wasn’t just about leaving – it was about becoming. This journey of self-discovery and resilience has led me to create this space, a place where shared experiences and open communication can foster healing and understanding.


Now, alongside my loving husband of 20 years and our loyal pup, Elle – who has one blue eye, one brown, and a spirit as healing as her gaze – I’m rebuilding from the break. This blog is my way of reaching back with the light I’ve found. It's a place where I hope others can also find solace, understanding, and a path towards their own healing and self-discovery. Whether you're looking for support, to share your story, or simply to feel less isolated, know that you are not alone, and you are welcome here.


Whether you’re seeking guidance, needing to share your experiences, or simply yearning for connection, know that this space is designed for you. Your presence here is not just tolerated; it's celebrated. You are valid, you are heard, and you belong.

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My Mission

To speak the truth, break the silence, and help survivors feel less alone. The Rift with Rick is dedicated to giving voice to the often-hidden pain experienced by survivors of narcissistic abuse. As a survivor myself, I understand the immense difficulty of escaping the cycle and rebuilding. My mission is to cultivate a supportive community where healing can begin through honesty, shared experiences, and the empowering realization that every story matters. I aim to guide others on their journey from the "break" to the "becoming."


The Rift with Rick is a safe space where the unheard voices of survivors of narcissistic abuse can finally be validated. I am not a therapist or guru, but a fellow survivor who understands the immense struggle of breaking free and rebuilding.


My mission is to cultivate a safe and supportive space for the LGBTQ+ community where healing starts with honesty, strong community bonds, and the constant affirmation that every individual's story holds immense value. By sharing personal experiences and forging genuine connections, I aspire to empower others on their transformative journey, helping them move from a place of "break" toward a fulfilling "becoming."

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